I am maxed out on my wedding budget as it is. It is very small about 50 people. My hair dresser who I have been going to for about 5 years is driving approx. 50 miles to do my hair for the ceremony/ reception. I am paying her and giving her extra for driving but I am wondering if I am also obligated to send her an invite to the ceremony/reception as well? I have to pay for some vendors to eat there but they are doing things during the reception- DJ, Photographer etc. Is it acceptable to just pay her and say thanks!-bye!???